Refugium Aschaffenburg – workshops, classes, coaching & more

From yoga and massages to sex-positive workshops

In the heart of the city, the Refugium will open its doors from April 2026. Workshops and classes of all kinds await you, with a special focus on body-based adult education.

A space for conscious encounters and mindful connection

When we attended our first workshop, we had no idea that just a few years later we would open our own space for courses. Today, we’re typing these lines in fascination and are looking forward to creating a space for others where they can grow.

No matter where you are on your journey – you’re welcome here.

We are Jay and Christian, currently training to become Advanced Lomi Lomi Practitioners, and the founders of Refugium Aschaffenburg.

News

1503, 2026

Join us for the opening on April 18

15 March, 2026|

Opening at Refugium Aschaffenburg Refugium is opening its doors — and you’re warmly invited! From 12 noon on April 18 you can get to know our new space in a relaxed atmosphere, have a look around, ask questions, and chat with us. With coffee, tea, cake, and first encounters, you’ll get a sense of what’s possible at Refugium. On site, you’ll learn more about the planned workshops and offerings, as well as the option to rent the rooms yourself for classes, coaching, bodywork, or other [...]

Classes & workshops

  • Sir Chris and Jay Stark BDSM for Beginners

    BDSM for Beginners

    May 6, 19:00 - 21:00 2026

    Reality instead of clichés: In “BDSM for Beginners” you’ll get a compact, well-grounded introduction to the broad field of BDSM—covering terms, possibilities, consent, aftercare, and plenty of time for your questions.

  • Stefano Taiuti performs Butoh dance

    (Re)discover Your Body – Somatic Movement & Butoh Basics (beginner-friendly)

    May 30, 14:00 - May 31, 16:00 2026

    In this beginner-friendly two-day workshop, Stefano Taiuti teaches somatic movement and Butoh basics to explore movement from the inside out—sensation, imagery and presence—so you move with more ease, range and expression.

  • Kinky Flow Massage Course Aschaffenburg

    Kinky Flow Massage Ritual

    October 2 - October 4 2026

    A sensual massage ritual with warm oil, inspired by the flowing movements of Lomi Lomi massage – transformed into a loving play with power and surrender. Each ritual is unique and intuitive, tailored to the person receiving it. How can you build a dynamic arc of tension in the massage, stage surprising moments, read body language, and create a safe space? Learn the basics and discover new sides of yourself!

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Since we also offer sex-positive workshops, we can only address certain topics there to a limited extent. Things get more exciting in our