Kinky Flow Massage Ritual

… you want to touch people’s soul, in a conscious way.

… you’re curious about how to incorporate imagination and mental imagery into a session.

… you want to learn something new.

Individuals or partner constellations (not a couples-only workshop).

No prior experience in massage or kink necessary.

At first glance, Lomi Lomi-inspired sensual massage and the world of kink seem full of contradictions.

Kink is about the consensual exploration of intense stimulation, sensations, and feelings, and the conscious exploration of surrender, vulnerability, and power. It includes fiery aspects of desire and erotica, but can also be meditative, relaxing, or playful. “To be able to let yourself go without being dropped…” a participant told us after our workshop.

In traditional Hawaiian Lomi Lomi massage, broad, sweeping strokes flow from head to toe, simultaneously over and under the entire body. It’s like being embraced by the swirling waves of the ocean and its quiet depths. Simply surrendering into loving hands, into warm, soothing touch. Feeling grounded and deeply moved.

Kinky Flow is created when we merge the security-providing qualities of Lomi touch with creative, loving, and erotic elements from kink. A practice of its own, something completely new!

We will explore how to gradually infuse dominance into massage practice, how to develop empathy and non-verbal communication, how to negotiate consent, and how to create a safe space.

We will playfully integrate kink into a range of gentle dominance practices: e.g., playing with shame, being visible with your own desire, and staging surprising moments. But also physically: light strikes (spanking), hair pulling, body fixation, seduction, and denial.

Kinky Flow celebrates the combination of sensual massage and kink and their shared core principle: listening deeply to the body with empathy and respect – to support it in embarking on a unique inner journey, discovering other aspects of oneself, and perhaps even finding new perspectives.

Therefore, alongside the practice, we will focus extensively on one of our favorite topics: imagination and your own “mental cinema.” A valuable quality that requires awareness to be stimulated.

Jana and Stefano’s approach is playful, creative, and intuitive, based on trust and consent. Their rich experience gives you impulses on how to find a YES to your power and vulnerability, intimacy and surrender with joy and curiosity.

You will get to know new principles (instead of just following techniques). You will experience how your inner attitude can support you when you link action and emotions. Above all, you will learn to trust yourself when leading and/or surrendering. You will become increasingly confident in building a dynamic arc of tension for the intensity of a session, reading body language, and letting yourself be guided by the pleasurable desire of the person receiving.

During these three days, Jana and Stefano see themselves as your travel companions. They guide you lovingly and challenge you—on the way to your adventure, an encounter with yourself.

Play with us and rediscover yourself! In the end, we surprise ourselves.

Day 1: Basics of Lomi Lomi Massage

Day 2: Basics of kink, consent (recognizing and communicating your own desires and boundaries) + play options

Day 3: Deepening Kinky Flow as a Kinky Massage Ritual

Each day you will have the opportunity to give and receive one massage.

Jana and Stefano have been inspiring people with their Kinky Flow workshops for many years. Both are body workers and massage instructors at Lomi-Ausbildung-Berlin. Jana is also a breath therapist and Stefano is a dancer (Butoh).

Both Jana and Stefano have extensive BDSM and kink experience.

Tickets are available via Eventfrog.

You will receive a detailed packing list with plenty of notice.

This is a mixed-gender workshop. All identities and orientations are welcome. A workshop for individuals and partner constellations (not a couples-only workshop).

Consent is the basis for our interaction: we encourage you to be brave and careful, to communicate your own needs and boundaries, to take self-responsibility, and to absolutely respect the boundaries of others.