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From April 2026, a wide range of courses awaits you at Refugium Aschaffenburg. From massage to BDSM, from Bodywork to sex education – what appeals to you? We look forward to seeing you!

  • 9. April - 12. April 2026

    Massaging with warm oil on a couch – soothing for body, mind, and soul. No wonder Lomi Lomi Nui is also called the “Queen of Massages.” In this four-day course, you will learn the first fundamentals. Afterwards, you will already be able to give soothing massages.

  • 16. April, 18:00 - 21:00 2026

    Learn how to handle singletails like the bullwhip in a small group. Suitable for beginners and experienced participants. Individuals and couples welcome.

  • May 6, 19:00 - 21:00 2026

    Reality instead of clichés: In “BDSM for Beginners” you’ll get a compact, well-grounded introduction to the broad field of BDSM—covering terms, possibilities, consent, aftercare, and plenty of time for your questions.

  • May 30, 14:00 - May 31, 16:00 2026

    In this beginner-friendly two-day workshop, Stefano Taiuti teaches somatic movement and Butoh basics to explore movement from the inside out—sensation, imagery and presence—so you move with more ease, range and expression.

  • October 2 - October 4 2026

    A sensual massage ritual with warm oil, inspired by the flowing movements of Lomi Lomi massage – transformed into a loving play with power and surrender. Each ritual is unique and intuitive, tailored to the person receiving it. How can you build a dynamic arc of tension in the massage, stage surprising moments, read body language, and create a safe space? Learn the basics and discover new sides of yourself!

  • October 16, 14:00 - October 18, 18:00 2026

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    Who are you as a dominant? How do you engage in mindful play, using as little words as possible? International inspiration Andy Buru guides participants through three days of intense experiences, exploring the dynamics of power on both sides. Deepen your play, explore new terrain – or anything in between.

  • 14. November, 12:00 - 18:00 2026

    Have you always wanted to try fisting? In this practical workshop, you'll get insights into anatomy, preparation, toys, and execution (anal & vaginal/fronthole).

  • 9. April, 2027, 14:00 - 11. April, 2027, 18:00

    Building on the POWER workshop, DESIRE transcends the duality of couple dynamics. If you want to deepen your journey into esoteric eroticism and ritualized SM, you've come to the right place.