Jay

Founder, creative soul, bodyworker

At a glance:

As the creative soul of the Refugium, Jay takes care of everything you see from us publicly, like interviews with instructors or behind-the-scenes insights. From late 2026, Jay will also be working as a coach.

What inspires me:

People who are discovering or rediscovering their sexuality

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Background:

I am currently training to become a S*EXPLORATIV COACH with Kristina Marlen, and am in the final stages of training as an Advanced Practitioner at Lomi Ausbildung Berlin.

My workshop journey:

  • September 2024 to April 2026 – Lomi Lomi Advanced Practitioner training
  • March 29–31, 2024 – Kinky Flow Freiburg
  • February 8, 2025 – Spanking Workshop by Gillian
  • February 22, 2025 – Spielfreudig by Gillian
  • March 5, 2025 – Bullwhip Workshop
  • April 11–13, 2025 – Kinky Flow Biel
  • May 7–11, 2025 – Intim Intensiv with Kristina Marlen
  • October 5–7, 2025 – Kinky Flow Berlin
  • October 3, 2025 – Power by Andy Buru
  • January 22, 2026 – Shibari Basics with Victor