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From April 2026, a wide range of courses awaits you at Refugium Aschaffenburg. From massage to BDSM, from Bodywork to sex education – what appeals to you? We look forward to seeing you!

  • October 2 - October 4 2026

    A sensual massage ritual with warm oil, inspired by the flowing movements of Lomi Lomi massage – transformed into a loving play with power and surrender. Each ritual is unique and intuitive, tailored to the person receiving it. How can you build a dynamic arc of tension in the massage, stage surprising moments, read body language, and create a safe space? Learn the basics and discover new sides of yourself!

  • October 16, 14:00 - October 18, 18:00 2026

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    Who are you as a dominant? How do you engage in mindful play, using as little words as possible? International inspiration Andy Buru guides participants through three days of intense experiences, exploring the dynamics of power on both sides. Deepen your play, explore new terrain – or anything in between.

  • 14. November, 12:00 - 18:00 2026

    Have you always wanted to try fisting? In this practical workshop, you'll get insights into anatomy, preparation, toys, and execution (anal & vaginal/fronthole).

  • 15. November, 12:00 - 18:00 2026

    Are you a professional looking to learn more about fisting? In this practical workshop, you'll receive input on anatomy, preparation, toys, and execution (anal & vaginal/fronthole).

  • 28. November, 14:00 - 21:00 2026

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    Rope is a language of communication, intention, and connection. In this workshop with Vik & Gala from Shizen Studio Barcelona, you'll explore playful, intimate floor-based scenes where rope builds erotic tension and presence… without technically demanding patterns. Simple ties become powerful tools for anticipation, vulnerability, and genuine connection.

  • 29. November, 12:00 - 18:00 2026

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    Semisuspensions open up a whole playground between floor work and full suspension. In this workshop with Vik & Gala from Shizen Studio Barcelona, you'll use tension, gravity, and movement to play with your partner's balance and body, using simple structures rather than technically demanding sequences, always keeping connection at the center.

  • January 16, 2027, 14:00 - January 17, 2027, 18:00

    Haven't really moved in years? This two-day workshop is made for you! Stefano Taiuti gently guides people with little or no movement experience back into their bodies: no pressure, no performance, just a real reconnection with how it feels to move. Maybe you’ll even discover some joy? Let’s find out.

  • 16. April, 2027, 14:00 - 18. April, 2027, 18:00

    Building on the POWER workshop, DESIRE transcends the duality of couple dynamics. If you want to deepen your journey into esoteric eroticism and ritualized SM, you've come to the right place.